Every one of my girls have had “the talk” with me. The detailed sex talk is something that is best left to their mother. My talk with them is more about protecting who they want to be. The conversation is simple and straightforward with three key themes: do not feel pressured to do anything you do not want to do – wait till marriage; never place yourself in a position whereby saying “no” requires a physical fight; before you do something, think about the consequences if everyone on the internet could see it. I do not know if it is helpful, but as a father, it is my obligation to instill reality. One fact that has reared its ugly head are the expectations of boys regarding girls in the 21st Century.
Many young men are rightfully dejected regarding the state of young women. If you base your opinion of women on Facebook Reels and TikTok videos, how could you not be? After all, the general image portrayed about twenty-to-thirty-year-old females is one of sexual lasciviousness and outlandish promiscuity. A key contributor to this is the online porn industry.
The unrealistic sexual exploits of women in porn imprints a vision upon young men exposed to perverse fantasies. This leads to expectations by both genders: girls who believe they have to do “X” to please a boy; boys who believe girls want to do “X” because it was trending on PornHub. Thus, we now live in an era dominated by a “Girl Whore” culture. There are a multitude of reasons as to why, but one clear impact. It is destroying our male-female relationship dynamic.
From the beginning of time, girls have both attracted boys and conflicted with an inherent rebel streak. That is not new. What is new is the proliferation of expectations set by porn stars and social media influencers. Girls will always want to attract boys and if they think that boys are attracted to whores, girls will be whores. Correspondingly, young men are easily persuaded by the wrong thinking appendage. If a girl is a whore, who am I – young male – to stop her from achieving her objective? It is a poisoned circular logic.
Of course, not all men or women are this way; in fact, despite outward appearances, most young women are not whores. They may act stupidly in their youth, but for the most part, girls are still girls. They like to bake cookies, watch dramatic movies, and giggle. There is a reason the Hallmark Channel does so well. Are they interested in sex? Sure. Most young people are. Are they willing to do the depraved acts depicted online? Not at all. But you cannot blame young men for being confused by their misguided assumptions.
The proliferation of online sexual perversity is coupled with the “Girl Power” dynamic that has likely contributed to more rapes and/or deaths of many young women then we will ever know. Many female victims sincerely believed they could “take care of themselves” and beat up a male assailant simply because the movies told them that their kick boxing class was sufficient. No, women are not as tough as men. Physiology is immutable and that is currently being proven throughout women’s sports with the proliferation of degenerate psychopaths who believe gender is a fluid concept (it is not). In addition to the Girl Power belief that females can beat up males in a fight, there is an associated belief that females can be just as promiscuous as men with the same lack of consequences. That is simply false.
The reality for a promiscuous male is that he is likely to catch an STD if he is not careful and possibly a child support bill. Otherwise, he generally walks away, possibly with an elevated reputation among certain circles. The reality for a promiscuous female is that she is also likely to catch an STD and the actual child. Her reputation is simply not likely to come out as favorable – especially if she is a single mom. Rather, she becomes an easy mark for the next horny male. Worse, is the murder that might result from this childish belief in equality. One of the key reasons that abortion is so popular in the modern era is that it is a means to eliminate the consequences of bad decisions by females. Terminating a life has become the default option for girls who spread their legs with abandon.
The Girl-Whore Era is a combination of multiple societal factors that have been purposely designed to exploit young sexual urges that have always existed but have never been so easily manipulated. Girls have been entrapped by a combination of expectations and a desire to attract males that have been driven by outside influencers who are purely evil. Boys have been driven into camps – whereby a small few are able to hunt a wide pack of promiscuous girls, while the vast majority of young men wonder if they will ever find a “good girl.” The result is that the good girls never meet the good guys – and humanity suffers.
I believe that is entirely by design. Satan hates life and life is the result of healthy male-female relations. Correspondingly, the Devil’s children are at the helm of the vast majority of this perverse destruction. If you wonder who the Devil’s children are, I direct you to the words of Jesus Christ found in John 8: 35-45.
The son of a recent Irish immigrant and another with roots to Virginia since 1670. I love both my Irish and Southern Nations with a passion. Florida will always be my country. Dissident support here: Padraig Martin is Dixie on the Rocks (buymeacoffee.com)
Women need to be mothers with children at an early age by mid 20’s
These Problems would go away with quite grace !
Please young women follow your biological clock and win with a big family!
God Bless
Few moods are more unfriendly to clear thinking than a crusading temper; and as the South grew more self-conscious, it was fortified by the last absurdity of all, race theory. For, exasperated by Yankee self-righteousness and the facile caricature of uncle Tom’s cabin, it was not content to tell the north that it’s “priesthood prostitutes itself to a level with the blackguard, and enters the field of secular politics, in the spirit of a beer house bully” adding without unnecessary chivalry that northern womanhood, “deserting their nurseries, stroll over the country as politico-moral reformers, delivering lewd lectures upon the beauties of free-love or spiritualism, or writing yellow-back literature, so degrading in taste, so prurient in passion, so false in fact, so wretched in execution, and so vitiating to the morals of mothers in the land, as almost to force them to bring up daughters without virtue and sons without bravery”
From the book ‘one hundred year’s’ by Philip Guedalla, 1936-1937. chapter- 1861 sub-title Charleston S.C, p. 86.
Your daughters are fortunate to have you as a Father Padraig.
God Bless You Sir
The usual suspects have targeted women in a big way. They appear to ID’d the personality disorders that are most useful to their agenda, narcissism being one of these, and brought the big guns in to bear on them. Narcissism goes hand in hand with gullibility.