It makes sense that a lot of the younger guys in the Dissident Right (and younger guys in general) hate modern women. I chalk much of that up to the prevalence of social media. Platforms like Twitter and TikTok allow the worst elements of female narcissism to gain widespread exposure. Of course, young women that brag about being “whores” (their description, not mine), for some nervous laughs on TikTok, paint a rather disturbing picture of the fairer sex. To be very honest, I can understand why younger men, either ironically or unironically, embrace the “incel” path. The other sex seems wildly out of control, self-absorbed, hyper-sexualized, and brimming with virtual sociopaths. The problem is – those jewel-eyed harlots admitting their ridiculously high body counts for online dopamine hits – really are the exception and not the rule. You shouldn’t hate women because of the force multiplier that is social media.
Before I’m labeled a simp, let me be clear on a couple of big-ticket items. Firstly, the 19th Amendment was a tragic mistake. I’m considered a misogynistic dinosaur for holding that opinion. Allowing women to vote in the West is a very, very new phenomenon; it doesn’t take a brain surgeon to figure out that female suffrage has directly led to codified infanticide, upending the nuclear family, declining church attendance, demographic displacement (i.e., Angela Merkel), and a whole host of other catastrophic challenges. The originators of “democracy,” the ancient Greeks, certainly did not agree that women should vote, nor did the republican Romans. Europe only approved of female suffrage after the continent was obliterated during the Great War (she has been in freefall ever since).
Also, women should never lead men. The sexes are different and contrasting, although they complement each other. Women do not take the risks men do; they do not have the bloodlust for battle like we do (I know that sounds cringe). They think and analyze situations much differently than men. These are all red pills that the average Identity Dixie reader fully understands, and I don’t need to reinvent the wheel on the foundational differences, physically and mentally, between the sexes. Like the online jezebels that portray all women as degenerate courtesans, there are, of course, exceptions (like everything in life). Furthermore, single-sex education is required for a healthy society. The destruction of male-spaces, practically all of them at this point, has been disastrous for men. Without tradition, mentorship, rites of passage, controlled hardship, etc. you get the slovenly American males we see today. Or, as C.S. Lewis described:
“And all the time — such is the tragi-comedy of our situation — we continue to clamor for those very qualities we are rendering impossible. You can hardly open a periodical without coming across the statement that what our civilization needs is more “drive”, or dynamism, or self-sacrifice, or “creativity”. In a sort of ghastly simplicity we remove the organ and demand the function. We make men without chests and expect of them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honour and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. We castrate and bid the geldings be fruitful.”
C.S. Lewis, from The Abolition of Man
Do I think feminism is horrible? Of course, there is little doubt regarding its poisonous results. But, that does not mean we, as men, should blindly hate women. You show me a man that absolutely despises women and I’ll guarantee you that he is either a weirdo homo and/or a sad, lonely man without a glimpse of a future at marriage and fatherhood. The prevailing culture of the West actually wants you to hate women, so do the opposite. It wants abortions, it wants hook-up culture, it wants incels, it wants cowardly beta-males, it wants men to be women and women to be men; it desperately wants the inversion of the natural order. And, it wants you cowed, domesticated with cheap consumerism, and, most importantly, it wants you to be without a family of your own – hint: you need a woman for that.
There have always been slutty women. Yes, even during the trad-days of the 1950s. Some women are just wired that way, and it absolutely does not help when the culture promotes widespread promiscuity. In a functional society, they would be shamed out of it (hopefully, at least) or forced into a convent or something. However, and this is where the manosphere diehards and IronyBros will disagree with me, not all women are sluts. To view them as such, will rot your brain and curb your chances of having a meaningful and healthy relationship with a woman. To consider all women as sluts is also a cop out (akin to a “cope” for the Zoomers) – it’s one of the reasons why the younger guys are afraid to even talk to a woman. Again, you’re not going to have a girlfriend, much less a wife, if you consider all women, even the good ones, as treasonous trollops.
Now, there is a whole slew of Dissident Right guys out there that will blame things, naturally outside of their control, on why they can’t get a girlfriend, besides hatin’ women, such as: their low sexual market value, their height, the game is rigged against them, women suck, they’ll cheat on you, there are no good girls left in the world, etc. All of that is a cope. These guys can’t get a girlfriend because they’re afraid of rejection and it’s easier to spout off edgy Dissident Right talking points than it is to ask a girl out. Ultimately, it’s the mark of a chump. That good woman, and that promising future, is out there for you. Make it happen.
I’m not asking you to “Believe All Women,” adopt your wife’s boyfriend’s children, take your bride-to-be’s last name, subscribe to someone’s OnlyFans account, or white knight for women on the internet. The thing is, real life, your life to be more specific, is not a meme, a stream, or a transgressive Telegram channel. You’re in real life and make it count. As the old ID meme goes: find a good woman, settle down, and start a family. Hating women, legitimately hating women (not locker room jokes), is a surefire way to ensure your family line ends with you. Act accordingly.
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Nice. Very nice, sir.
Another very fine piece. … Would that I had learned it when I was young.
I especially appreciated the quote from ‘Abolition of Man’.
Here’s an excerpt from Benjamin Morgan Palmer that I think is very much on point as it relates to this subject:
“What is called the weakness of woman is really her strength. It springs from the more exquisite delicacy of her organization, both intellectual and physical, by which she is fitted for the more delicate and tender offices which she is called to discharge. The dependence to which all this adapts her is not her degradation, but her glory. p. 36. As the vine has a root of its own, which is the source of its life, so is the wife rooted in the consciousness of her distinct personality. … Yet as the vine clings to the rude prop by which it is sustained, so does the gentle will of the wife knit to the will of which her own is the counterpart. … But in its fallen estate, it must be controlled by positive law, “added because of transgression.” … Just as the law of labor imposes upon fallen man only the industry which was a duty from the beginning, so the law of obedience imposes upon the woman only the subordination which existed from the moment she was created. … But in both alike the curse becomes a blessing through the patience which willingly accepts it.” pp. 56-7.
Benjamin Morgan Palmer, ‘The Family in its Civil and Churchly Aspects’
I’d add one more important factor: You have to marry a woman who doesn’t make more money than you! If you don’t, even if they are a good conservative or liberal woman, they will eventually start to resent you, and the dynamic will change irreversible between the couple. Just my 2C.
If I were a young man looking for a wife, I’d look for one who hasn’t been to college and who has never entered the workforce.
I second that advice T Morris.
Thanks. I should probably write an article about this. When I wrote the above, I was certainly not writing it as a “be all, and end all” recommendation. There is more to it than that, certainly, but I was sort of “writing on the fly” when I wrote that, and therefore didn’t go into the matter more particularly or in more detail. For example, my father instilled in me from an early age that, when it came time for me to look for a proper wife, I should be looking for a young woman who e.g. had a good relationship with her parents, most particularly with her father; that I should strictly avoid, like the marriage-ending plague that it was and is, a young woman whose relationship with her father in particular was, well, dysfunctional. Somehow I took that lesson to heart (I didn’t always take my father’s lessons to heart) and acted accordingly.
College is toxic for young women, and entering into the workforce in a serious way is probably just as toxic, if not more so (I’m not talking about working at McDonalds or something like that as a 16 year-old). A college educated “career woman” is certainly not the kind of woman I’d be looking for in a “life partner” and potential mother of my children, in large part because I went to college with and “dated” a bunch of them back in the mid-80s. But, if you as a young man can find a good one who has a properly functioning relationship with her parents, and particularly with her father, in 2022, then, I say, go for it, brother! I’m just saying that that isn’t going to be the case nine times out of ten, granting the occasional exception to the rule and all that.
Thanks, There is something wrong with men who hate women. They are certainly not welcome or needed in a Southern country. Chivalry has always been our theme. Further, most of the bad behaviour in women is due to bad men. Show me a feminist and I will show you a little girl who had a disappointing father.
I couldn’t agree more.
I can’t, with all due respect to Dr. Wilson, agree with this. I know, with him, that it is the case a lot of time, but disagree that it is the case all of the time. We live and breathe and operate in a different era than he did as a young man. As such, “show me a feminist and I’ll show you a little girl who had a disappointing father” isn’t necessarily the case. I could cite numerous examples of women whom I know personally who went bad *in spite of* their fathers. So called “no fault divorce” is a biggie when it comes to this problem; many otherwise good fathers are simply disallowed from having a significant positive influence on their daughters. Again, with all due respect to Prof. Wilson.